Same Old Love

By Jae Vitug World of Thoughts ©

It has been a very long time…

It has been a year of firsts and lasts…

For the past months, I was brave enough to spill and wholeheartedly share my thoughts to the world. Believe me when I say that every blog post took incredible guts to write. Because on the night I started putting my hands to work on my thoughts about you, that’s when I proved that emotional writing totally kills. At the same time, it helped me breathe freely without hard feelings, regrets, and grievances.

I know that I should embrace the thought of getting rid of you but I will never be okay deep down, not until I tell you every single detail that I’ve been wanting to say. In this way, I could release all the built-up emotions I never expressed to you—all the things I assumed you knew.

I just want you to know that I’m writing this letter to you because I forgive you…

I don’t know how to begin it. I don’t know the exact words that I should use to match with my neverending feelings, but here I am again…

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The Moment of Truth

By Jae Vitug World of Thoughts ©

Is there really such thing as perfect timing? Is there someone really destined for you?

No. I don’t think so. I believe there’s only decisions, choices that are meant to be made. There’s not the right time that you have to make it, because if you really want something, you will make it happen.

And so you’ve made your decision, and my decision is counterfeited since I don’t think I can do more about it, rather than just hoping you’d have a great future, the one without me as I imagined it to be…

Perhaps I was too optimistic, thinking that there could be more of us than just friends.

But friends don’t do what we do…

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Why The Smallest Chance Of Love Is Worth The Giant Risk Of Heartbreak

By Paul Hudson |  Elite Daily ©

I’ve had my fare share of both amazing and horrific experiences with women. I don’t fall in love easily, and I’m not one to settle, so I’m sure you can imagine that my dating experiences have been very… colorful.

Sometimes things end well. Sometimes they don’t. The one thing that has yet to change is that things always end. This isn’t the goal. But “it is what it is.”

People are what make relationships complicated. I’m not a straightfoward person, and I like dating complex women. So finding myself in complex and emotionally intense situations isn’t uncommon.

I’m the kind of guy who doesn’t get his interest caught too often. But when my interest is piqued, I’m not likely to back down. I’m stubborn like that, only because I know what I Iike — and I like what I like. Nevertheless, spending years not being able to find anyone who clicks does get a bit frustrating.

The truth is that even though I wanted to date again, I wasn’t really ready to date again. I’d been going through a rough patch, and although I can’t say that I “wasn’t myself,” I wasn’t the best version of myself.

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Arsenal vs Liverpool at Emirates Stadium

By Jae Vitug | World of Thoughts ©


A Gooner’s Point of View

Earlier’s game was a real proof that Wenger needs to do some adjustments from his line up, heck the team’s got loads of money for him to buy new signings!

Remind me again why it took him 80′ to sub Giroud out? If it wasn’t for Cech’s brilliant performance we would’ve lost!

And why is Ramsey a winger when he’s better off in the center? Otherwise, was a good try from Cazorla’s pass to Ramsey’s finish, only if it wasn’t on offside, it would’ve been a great goal.

Gabriel and Ozil were also doing their job, Bellerin got some good defending, but that one when he failed to guard Coutinho could’ve been a goal from Liverpool if it didn’t hit the post.

My praises go for Mignolet as well, good saves coming from Chamberlain and Sanchez, but still quite disappointed, we need a new bold, fast, and skillful striker!

For 3 games we’ve got only 4 points, this is just the beginning of the season but we’re not doing strong, still hoping for new signings before the cut off date, like when Ozil was signed.

What a good entertainment this match was although goalless.


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You Have To Let Go…

By Anonymous |  Elite Daily ©

I have seen several articles about getting toxic people out of your life, saying goodbye and letting go. When you progress through your twenties, you start to realize who is down for you and who is going to bring you down.

The thing is, even with all of those articles, most people do not ever say what happens after you get rid of the toxic person.

Well, I found out.

Over the past several years, I started to recognize that so many girls have at least one guy in their lives who caused them emotional heartache. One guy with whom they were confused about where they stood.

This one guy who made them question their self worth and who, unknowingly and probably not purposefully, ruined all of their other relationships…

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What It’s Like To Feel Nothing

By Laura Meyers |  Elite Daily ©

Picture this: “Mr. Perfect” walks into your life; he’s literally tall, dark and handsome. He’s charismatic and hard-working, and he loves his family.

Above all else, he happens to adore you. Of course, you’re smitten. How could you not be?

But, it’s hard to ignore that tiny feeling you notice growing in a small corner of your heart. It’s the feeling that you don’t feel anything at all.

I’m sure you’re happy.

You care about his well-being, and you enjoy the time you spend together. You may even love him as a person or as a friend, but you most certainly are not in love with him.

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